"Feel the pain until there’s nothing to feel. . ."


Ending a relationship is never been easy. There is that certain feeling you want to fight, hoping you will return back the love you’ve had. You are always being eager to rebuild your relationship to bring back the smiles you shared together. 

Moving on could be stressful to most of us because of the fear to let go of the past. The memories are frequently flashing back which triggers the pain even more. Every time this happens, the heart is being dragged across shattered glass inducing pain that even the person barely explains.


What have I done wrong? Could it be I’m never been enough?

Many questions circling around our minds, which we try to answer by ourselves. We are forced to create scenarios that are not real to fill the questions that do not even have answers. Asking for answers to these questions has never been enough to satisfy our crave for closure. 

Anxiety builds up in every sleepless night. Pain is crawling down across every idle nerve. Tears are streaming down the face for every memory of that person. Accepting that it is over is nevertheless a battle that you have to be eager to win.

Heartbreaks hit worse when you are truly in love with that person. This has been the irony – we tend to love the person but ending up being hurt by them. We love them, and we are willing to forgive them. However, the essence of moving on is not forgiveness at all, but your willingness to let go.

Every sleepless night always hunts the past. We tend to remember every single detail of the person we loved. Their smile, how they talk, the laughter we share, their scent, and the smile we have on our face as we see them. All of these hunt us, bringing back the past that will never return again. Heartbreak is where we feel the pain of loving the person unconditionally. We tend to hope for something to renew, restart, and to change. We wish everything is just a decimated dream we never want to dream about. But not at all. We know the love has gone, no hope, no spark, no love.

Well, we have to face the truth; for the truth never lies. The love we share with them is just the memories of the past. The pain is always returning after our trip down to memory lane. We have to set people free, not because we're not eager to fight, but because that’s the least of what we can do.


The real medicine for a broken heart is yourself.

You have to be willing to let go of your past to start a new dawn of tomorrow. In every darkness, there is a light coming after. As long as you will believe, the pain will cease to be felt.

Your past relationship does not define your future. You have to keep walking away from what made you feel down, in pain, and in sorrow. There is a certain way to move on, just search for it, go for it, and cherish it for this is the right time to reconsider yourself.

Do not search for the answers, do not ask for closure because these will only deepen your emotional damage. Be the person whom you wanted to be, and you will see you’ve made a favor for yourself.

Be the medicine for your heart. The past will continue to hunt you, chase you. Runaway and carry your broken heart along with you. Find a place where you will heal by yourself.

Ending a relationship is never been easy, and so for letting go. Mending your broken heart takes enough time. And when the time is at stake, be wise enough and don’t let anyone make you feel the pain you had.